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Nov 21, 2022
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Thank you so very much for this, I really needed to read this today! I especially love the invitation to DANCE DEEP -- I'll be sitting with (dancing with) that in the days to come. Sending good wishes to you and your little ones.

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Thank you for this. I deeply appreciate the way you’re sharing this story. I’ll be forwarding it to three friends today, per your request.

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Thank you for this comment, and thank you for sharing -- I truly appreciate it so much!

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Once again, impeccably written! And love the title.

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Thank you so much, Christie!

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I love the way you combine the mysteries and complexities of both pregnancy and trans identity in your essays, Finn. Carrying a child is the most displacing and bewildering experience for anyone, and as a cis woman/mother with a trans child, I am loving following your journey to parenthood.

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Thank you for this, and especially thank you so very much for this reminder: "Carrying a child is the most displacing and bewildering experience for anyone." That has definitely been my experience and it is so good to know I am not alone in this!

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Appreciating your sharing of your perspectives and lived experiences.

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Thank you so much for reading and witnessing!

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💕!!!

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💕💕💕

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